Saturday, February 14, 2009

No Time for the Girl

It's V-Day and I don't have a date. No, I don't have a date. The guy who's ambitions and aspirations I liked in the beginning of our "dating" period? Well, it seems now that he is always too busy. Busy to hang out, not convenient to take a study break.

"I hope you don't think I am blowing you off, but it's the timing at this point..."

He says that but I don't believe when people say that anymore. There is always time for the one that you care about enough. There is always an hour or two to spare in a day. I know he likes me, he just likes his work a lot more. I know I like my work too, but the truth is, I kind of miss him and want to spend some time with him. As little time as it may be. Is this too much to ask for?

I was hoping for a low-key dinner followed by a night of cuddling and maybe even his overnight stay at my place. Instead... Instead I've got a bottle of cheap vodka and Bridget Jones's Diary marathon on Bravo.

"I will never get what's so special about Valentine's Day..."

He's right. It's just another day after all.


Fluffycat said...

Nope, him spending time with you is not too much to ask for. Sounds like he has mis-aligned priorities and some day he'll be saying, damn I wish I had put more effort into my relationship with her and you will be long gone off to someone who makes time for you.

Paula said...

I basically think if someone can't make time for you, they ain't worth it. Up to you though! But I've been there before and it wasn't a nice feeling.